5 СHALLENGE Competently participate in the dispute
"In a dispute truth is born" or a beast may be born inside
you.
I've never been good at arguing. During an argument I go to two
extremes: either I went to a higher tone or I felt the higher tone press down
on me. So I decided to overcome my fear of arguing and posted a provocative
post on the social network. This post is about medicine in our region.
Probably many of you know that in our city
in some clinics people can get rude or prescribe medications that will make a
person feel worse. I was convinced of
this by personal example when I was told that until my eye falls out I should
not come to the clinic.
A
few days later I got a message from a friend who I haven't spoken to in about
three years and she didn't text me Hello or how are you. She started arguing
with me and said that I should not generalize and not all doctors are bad .
There are people are ungrateful and blame the doctors for everything. I didn't
notice how I started to speak in a raised voice and I was annoyed because I
didn't say that all doctors are like I noticed. I didn't feel well after the arguing
ended.
No. I didn't fail this challenge. Do you know
why? I realized that I still have this problem and I want to correct it. And
for this purpose it is necessary to treat disputes more calmly. It's hard for
me to accept that I'm wrong. But I try.
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